Love Don't Be Shy Extreme

I swear one of the big indie houses I shop at created a dupe of this. Or a slightly edited version of it, because it has everything but pomegranate (unfortunately!). It has since been discontinued. I would need like a 1mL-2mL decant of the real thing to be sure. Located in US, anyone wanna sell or swap? At first it’s all yummy lemon (not cleaner-like at all), marshmallow, orange blossom, and powderyness. Not in a scented cosmetic way, more like the feeling of flower petals. With this scent I especially cannot rub my skin together, otherwise that lovely introduction gets rubbed away and goes straight to nothing but powdery florals. The rose takes its time emerging. While it is sexy it is also motherly. And I mean the new definition of Mother, not the old vision of a lady cooking food in a polyester dress and an apron. Think Rosamund Pike from Gone Girl, or Alex from Law & Order SVU for my L&O fans. 😉 It’s as if LDBS is for your cute years, and Extreme is for when you want a hunk of a man to respect your power, but you can see flashes of lust and curiosity in his eyes. But he won’t make the first move. You scare him.. in the hottest way. He knows you would get him addicted to your entire being, and destroy him if he wronged you in any way. So all the notes seem bright, except for the rose, it comes off like blood red petals, the edges darkening and curling, almost to black. And for an oil-based fragrance in a rollerball, this stuff is a room filler. I don’t think I’ve had an indie surpass this one’s strength yet. It also lasts freaking forever. 24 hours is no exaggeration. When I use this, I gotta be dedicated to smelling it all day. But this is just the “dupe” ... I’m dying to try the real Extreme. Like I said, located in US, willing to buy or swap for a 1mL or 2mL! Spray mechanism preferred!

Kilian's Love Extreme is a fragrance that boldly explores the sensual and romantic side of perfumery. Launched as part of the "Kilian Loves" collection, this fragrance evokes passion, indulgence, and an unapologetic embrace of love, designed to envelop the wearer in a rich, intoxicating aura. The opening notes are immediately captivating with a luscious burst of rose and tuberose, creating an opulent, heady floral experience. These elements blend seamlessly with the smooth, creamy note of vanilla, which softens the florals and adds a warm, comforting undertone. The heart of the fragrance reveals an intoxicating mix of orchid and ylang-ylang, further enhancing the floral nature, while maintaining a sense of mystery and allure. As the fragrance settles, a deep, sweet, and warm base of amber and musk emerges. These notes provide a rich foundation that elevates the scent into something more sensual and enduring, ensuring that Love Extreme leaves a lasting impression. The sandalwood adds a creamy, woody touch, giving the composition an elegant balance between floral sweetness and warm depth. Love Extreme is a fragrance that exudes confidence and allure. Its complexity and long-lasting sillage make it perfect for evening wear, especially for those special occasions where you want to feel absolutely captivating. Its bold yet refined character appeals to those who enjoy rich, floral perfumes that also convey a sense of depth and sophistication. With a strong longevity and projection, Love Extreme will linger on the skin for hours, ensuring its presence is felt. It’s a fragrance that perfectly balances the essence of romance and sensuality, leaving an unforgettable trail wherever it goes.

Buy it! Being in covid lockdown meant I had to decide whether to blind buy this based on reviews or risk it being sold out before I had the chance to sample it in person. I watched a lot of YouTube reviews and read all the ones on here before I bought a full bottle. I’m so glad I did. I was worried because this is so pricey but it smells heavenly. Yes, it’s sweet, so if you don’t like sweet fragrances you may not like this, though that said, I don’t usually go for scents as sweet as this. It isn’t sickly or cloying and it smells divine, a bit like rose flavoured Turkish Delight as others have said, mixed with marshmallow, orange blossom and musk sticks. If you’ve tried the original Love, it smells like that but with the added powdery (yet also juicy?) rose. The rose doesn’t smell green to my nose and I’m glad about that. This is soft and rounded but has good strength to it. I have a spray of the original on my wrist which smells wonderful but is so faint compared to the Extreme (which I understand is thanks to a possible reformulation). You get your money’s worth with this and not the original, in terms of strength and staying power. It’s also more interesting than the original. I think if you’re on the fence and you can afford it, get it! To assist, some of my favourite fragrances are Dior Addict, Rouge Malachite, Tom Ford Noir, Lalibela, Marfa, Ylang in Gold, Pure Poison, Good Girl, Dear Polly, YSL Libre Intense, Eau Duelle and Coco Mademoiselle Intense. This is definitely a new favourite.

love don’t be shy extreme is what happens when your favorite marshmallow perfume grows up, puts on a silk dress, and starts flirting with the idea of being a rose. it’s still sweet, still addictive, but there’s this new floral glow that makes it feel more elegant and romantic than the original. the opening is bright and citrusy, with neroli and bergamot sparkling like tiny lights on a champagne glass. it’s playful, but the moment the orange blossom and bulgarian rose step in, everything turns soft-focus and dreamy. the rose here isn’t loud; it’s like a pink veil drifting over the marshmallow cloud underneath, making space for something tender and feminine to bloom. and that base... the marshmallow-vanilla-musky trio is still the star, but the pomegranate adds this subtle tartness. it keeps the fragrance from becoming pure candy, so it’s sweet, creamy and comforting, but more polished than the original. this scent feels like a girl wrapped in a fluffy cashmere scarf, cheeks flushed from the cold, whispering secrets into the neck of someone who can’t stop smiling at her. it’s warm, romantic, and ridiculously addictive. the longevity and projection are also incredible. she walks into a room before you do and stays long after you’ve left. love don’t be shy extreme is for the girl who wants her sweetness with depth, her florals with glow, and her romance with a bit of magic. if you love the original but wish it felt a little more sophisticated, a little more grown, this version is a dream.

Got it for myself for an early birthday present. I have the original that has a deep red/orange colour. Comparing it to that, I can say this one is a more versatile, sophisticated version of the original. This adds a level of sophistication to the already playful nature of the original. You can tell that the rose is high quality and definitely compliments the original DNA to a degree that it exudes an air of sophistication. I am a guy and I enjoy wearing the original. I think it's not too feminine at all, even though it is sweet. Adding rose to this, you can think that it could smell a bit more "middle aged woman". However, that is not the case. Yes, middle-aged women can pull this off perfectly, but I personally think it makes it more versatile. I'd say it has moved more in the unisex spectrum, compared to the original and on top of that, I think you can wear this one in all seasons, dressed up and down. Is this an "extreme" version of the original, not in the conventional sense. However, it is a flanker to the original that keeps the DNA while adding one more layer to it, which is rose in this case. Longevity is above average and sillage is moderate to high. Overall, I don't regret buying this blind and would highly recommend to both men and women, if you are not a stranger to sweeter, gourmand scents. If this was a dessert, it would be a rose flavoured Turkish delight!