Tears

As the name suggests, Tears is meant to evoke the scent of tears. While many describe its freshness as soapy, I experience it differently. Soapy fragrances often carry a sharp, almost prickling edge—the kind of tingling sensation you get from holding baby wipes too close to your nose or accidentally getting shampoo in your eyes. Tears, however, avoids that harshness. The lilac note transforms the composition. It’s soft, creamy, and distinctly powdery rather than sharp or citrusy like many fresh flowers smell, lending the fragrance a gentle, diffused quality. If anything, it smells like the lingering freshness after a shower rather than the act of washing with soap itself. There’s also a subtle salinity woven throughout. The salt is present but diluted, giving the scent a skin-like quality. It doesn’t mimic the sharp taste of actual tears; instead, it feels restrained and delicate. I imagine this is intentional—an attempt to capture the vulnerability and quiet intimacy of crying rather than its literal saltiness. A faint dampness runs through the fragrance, strengthening the association with tears. In the end, I would describe Tears as the scent of wet lilacs touched by a gentle, salty rain—a delicate, almost poetic reflection of human emotion expressed through nature.

A few people in the cons mentioned how it smells like lotion. That made me chuckle a bit. I can see how one could conjure that association, but only if you're looking for it in the opening. The dry down on me is very floral. Tears by Regime Des Fleurs is soapy, but to me lilac is soapy as a whole. If you don't like that note, you probably won't like a lot of lilac scents. I am very grateful to be one of those who thoroughly enjoy such smells. Melancholic is a great way to describe this, but melancholic in the way one would feel while staring out of their bedroom window while it rained. It invokes a feeling of comfort in me that no other perfume has. Safe to say I will be repurchasing, and will need to very soon, as I've made quite the sizeable dent over the few months I've had it. A bit of a disclaimer. As a whole, I am not drawn to "offensive" fragrances, whereas many desire their perfumes to project. For that reason, some may dislike the lack of sillage/projection in this fragrance. I believe it matches the perfume's aesthetic; it is a secret for you and yours to share. That concept is very poetic to me. TLDR; If you don't mind the clean scent you initially get hit with, you will be pleasantly surprised. It is very well formulated and inoffensive. Beautiful lilac.

I adore this scent — certainly lilac first, and it’s such a natural, shimmering, iridescent lilac. The juxtaposition with cognac, olibanum and ambergris is unexpected; it makes this fragrance truly unique and gives it depth and some maturity — just enough that while it might be a perfect fit for an elf (or a fairy, as @smmcmurthy points out), it is not a scent that accents purity or innocence. This elf has seen some things and developed a taste for subtle contradictions : ) I do wish I could detect fleur d’orange, rosewater, or pink pepper a little more. But for a blend of this beauty I would also be afraid to ask for any deviation from what it already is! Orris becomes more prominent in the heart and dry down, with a bit of clean powderiness (far from dustiness however, thankfully). It is fittingly ephemeral in performance — it has a bit of projection for an hour or two, but after three it’s gone for both myself and others. If only RdF made matching 15ml bottles to carry around! I have found ‘Tears’ to have better projection and staying power than ‘En Passant’ by Olivia Giacobetti for F. Malle, however (which is the only other lilac fragrance I enjoy, but that one is pure lilac garden after rain, whereas this one seems much more creative to me). 9/10

This was love at first smell for me. Ordered it the same day I got the sample. I've never smelled a fragrance quite like it - and it's definitely NOT a safe blind buy! It's very naturalistic, atmospheric, and moody. It smells like fresh cut, dewey lilacs resting on satin. The first day of spring when it's juuust warm enough to open your windows: the almost watery, delicately floral, cool spring breeze gently tossing the white curtains. It's a true spring fragrance both literally (spring flowers) and figuratively: it's a mourning, a eulogy for the cozy winter nights, and all the things that couldn’t make it through to emerge again from the cold dark; but it is also a deep breath of fresh air filling your lungs, looking ahead to all the beautiful things to come. "Nostalgic for memories you never knew you had" is truly the best phrase to encapsulate this fragrance. It smells antiqued and slightly powdery: like a Victorian era painting of a corseted woman, applying vintage makeup in her dressing room with the widow open. It's a melancholic, hopeful, haunting, beautiful mystery.

This is a very lovely clean scent. It's a sweet rosewater floral, with lovely soapy notes. It's very vintage smelling, which I like. I definitely smell the lilac and orange blossom. The orange blossom smells synthetic, more like a bunch of white flowers to make a Neroli scent. I wish I could smell the orris and the ambergris more. I feel like I smell it more towards the heart, but it's still incredibly soapy. On my skin the first notes are very peppery (which I love) Then it becomes a deep rose fragrance (also love) There is a green note with a soapiness floating beneath it. It's soft, a little more musky on me. There's a salty ambergris that I like, however, there is a note I'm not quite sure what it is, in the heart that feels like it's battling it a little. It stays very clean and it smells really nice and classy on my skin. I quite like how deep the rose becomes on me because on paper it doesn't smell as rich.

There are plenty of reviews describing the notes, projection, longevity etc ... so I will summarize those things quickly and focus on a more general impression. For me the lilac is dominant and beautiful from start to finish. I get the orris, orange, orange blossom and the rose. Projection is moderate at first, and minimal after an hour. Longevity for me is about 5 hours. I have tried all available fragrances in the Regime des Fleurs line. There were a few I expected to enjoy much more than this one. But somehow Tears is the fragrance I like best, by a good margin. It is a more gentile, smoother and airy Love At First Sight by Une Nuit Nomade. I am a guy. I love this fragrance. Is it unisex? Probably not lol, but I love it any way. I think my wife and daughters will steal it from me if they discover it, so I ask for your discretion as I maintain its gatekeeping in my own household. 9/10 from me.

Before purchasing “Tears,” I had an emotional journaling session with a friend and fellow creative from Chicago. We set intentions during the Virgo New Moon. Tears streamed down my face as I pondered on the future's potential triumphs and failures. I wrote about how buying a perfume brings me peace and helps me create memories. After our session, I visited Merz Apothecary, my absolute favorite store in Chicago and discovered this gorgeous, nostalgic scent. “Tears” made me feel beautiful. It captured the essence of lilac flowers transforming into something cold and descending. It felt like experiencing the process of grief, but through smell. Amidst the heavy rain showers in Chicago, I found myself appreciating life and embracing whatever the future might hold, letting out tears of happiness.

I love this scent so much. It does not last long, but it's a fantastic beautiful experience while it does. The first time I tried it I could not stop smelling my own skin and actually enjoyed how it changed as it faded away. It reminds me of something my grandmother would wear - it burns brightly at the start and doesn't have much of a lifespan. Perfect for the occasional quick moment when you want to leave an impression. It smells like looking at an exquisite painting or crying after a film that really moved you. I like to uncap this and smell it when I need a pick me up. Nice to layer it with a longer lasting scent or bring a sample/travel size of a scent with more longevity to apply once this fades out.

The initial spray of Tears is overtaken by pink pepper, somehow smelling similar to L'eau Papier by Diptyque despite the lack of overlapping notes. But it quickly subsides into a damp, melancholic lilac. The dampness can only be described as that of a white linen pillow, wet with a woman's tears late at night. No, this doesn't smell like fresh linen, and it isn't salty, but the feeling it evokes is muffled somehow... crying into your pillow. We've all been there! Longevity is decent, as it survived an hour-long bath on my skin, but sillage is intimate. I think the intimacy is perfect for a perfume of this nature. I might love this fragrance, and I hope to get a full-size bottle eventually.

Soft, private, mild-natured, withdrawn. The sample I got was a little too small, so I may need to revisit it to understand it fully. Fitting, actually, like it no longer even wants to be understood. I guess hopelessness can smell pretty great, although maybe a bit too powdery and comfortable for me. Will report back. Edit: I changed my mind about the powdery-ness. It's perfect. The only thing I'd change is the longevity. I get about an hour and a half on my skin. Tomorrow I'll try it on clothes and see what it does. Although it might be a short wear, I think I'm in love with it enough to get a bottle. I'll just have to ration it a lot. It's the perfect understated, cool, sadgirl perfume.

I just love this perfume. It smells like lilac, 100%, and clean laundry, but somehow it is also grounded and earthy. There is something there that makes me want to keep sniffing, like when you are falling in love with someone and just want to huff them. Like it’s mostly beautiful clean lilacs, but just a hint of dirty person. Maybe that’s the “animalic” note. I think what I love most is that it is not sweet at all so it’s more-ish rather than cloying. I find that it lasts a long time, all day, but doesn’t project much, which is also a good thing for me.

Your favorite blanket, just washed, but it's 1830 and Tide hasn't been invented yet. It's not warm from hanging in the springtime sun anymore, it's cooled and spread out perfectly on your bed - you've tucked in all the edges. Sunlight through the whitest lace curtains, throwing dappled shade across your bedchambers. Tiny white flowers, the slight aroma of lilac bushes wafting in through the window on the breeze. Everything is in its proper place and all is as it should be. Nap time?

Shut up, it's perfect. So nostalgic and quietly sad. Gives me the strangest memory of leaving the public swimming pool as a kid on a humid summer day because its begun to thunderstorm. On the way to the car, you walk by a lilac bush in full bloom as the rain comes down. Truly so well done. Like an angel crying or a ship seeing the lighthouse or the first spring rain or running into someone you knew a very long time ago or some other embarrassingly poetic happenstance. Beautiful.

Tears is a captivating floral fragrance that beautifully combines the freshness of lilac and mandarin with the warmth of ambergris and musk. Its opening presents a green, powdery bouquet that evolves into a tart, almost salty scent, adding an intriguing complexity. As it dries down, the fragrance reveals a clean, ambery warmth, making it both alluring and comforting. This contrasting personality makes Tears a standout choice for floral lovers seeking something unique.

Just lovely. I first wore this on a trip to the NorCal coast, so I have a briny, oceanic association that makes sense with the salty, wet qualities of this perfume. The lilacs are very realistic to my nose. The ambergris dry down lingers all day, I can still smell it on clothes and in my hair the next day. A reminder that tears aren't always sad. Shape-shifting. In warm weather, it's like a joyful spring day. In cold weather, it's perfectly dreary and somber.

This is my after-everything-shower, bedtime perfume. It’s so soapy, calming and comforting. Theres a vintage quality to it, not in a literal sense, but it feels nostalgic. Like a memory I’m going to miss. I feel like a princess wearing it. Like The Princess and the Pea. Or that scene in The Little Mermaid where it’s her first night as a human and she’s in her PJ’s looking out into the ocean. I always look forward to smelling this. LOVE

Really clean, watery, transparent lilac. I definitely see the comparisons that people are making re: laundry soap, even if it doesn’t go there for me. I was really enamored of this when I first tried it, but then I found several similar fragrances that I liked much more (mainly En Passant and A Drop d’Issey)... and a few of which are far more affordable. Still, it’s really beautiful, and if you love lilac it’s definitely worth trying.

SO good. Smells like rainy dewy lilac fields. I happened to test it out on a humid rainy day, and I kept catching whiffs of my wrist throughout the day and loving it. It smells a teeny bit soapy but I don’t mind that. Although the scent wasn’t so powerful as the day went on, I could still smell it faintly on my wrist after about 10 hours without reapplying, which I would personally consider a win. Can’t wait to buy a full bottle!

Weirdly enough, this smells EXACTLY like baby wipes my mom used to carry in her purse. For me, it evokes being taken care of—getting picked up from school and walking home on a cloudless day. As other reviews have mentioned, there's no salinity or anything that evokes tears per se. But I can see how the name of this bottle hinges on its nostalgic appeal and its play on scent memories often associated with powdery florals.

A melancholic bloom...heavy with waning, pale purple blossoms beneath gravid, overcast skies. This is a lilac musk; a fresh and humid moment at the end of the short window of life in which these tender flower-bunches explode with ephemeral joy. Sweet decay flanked by vigorous yet tempered foliage; it's sweet and creamy but not gourmond, it's fresh but not juvenile. It's honest and assertive, it's absolutely lovely. 9.5/10

would anoint myself with this every spring morning when i was i think 19 and held a burning torch for a close friend. obviously evocative of heartbreak now and reminds me of useless and girlish pursuit that ended in... tears. and still, the lilacs bloomed so beautifully in my parents' garden! What a nothing you were, To be changed so quickly Into an image, an odor- You are everywhere, source Of wisdom and anguish.

The first time I tried Tears, it immediately gave me Jane Austen vibes, all soft florals and timelessness. But when I tried it again yesterday, something clicked. The lilacs hit me in a way I didn’t notice before, and suddenly it reminded me of Nosferatu by Heretic Parfums. That melancholic spring feeling, like the world just starting to bloom but with a touch of sadness. I couldn't resist, I had to make it mine!

If I was into a wispier aesthetic (wispy bangs, wispy clothes, wispy demeaner) I would wear this all the time. I'm going to keep wearing sturdy fragrances that have leather as a base note but this is a lovely clear lilac with a wonderful wateryness to the whole thing. A lot of great notes in here: pink pepper, frankincense, wow! Maybe I'll wear it to my wedding if I'm wearing the appropriate (WISPY!!!!) dress.

Beautiful, delicate, slightly melancholic and clean. There's definitely some soil tincture notes in there. It's earthy, wet (but like a wet garden; not tears) and green with some lilacs and rose. I don't get any ambergris, frankincense, orris or cognac. To me this one smells a bit similar to Fathom V by Beaufort London, but lighter and more feminine. I love it but it's waaay too overpriced, though.

Coming back to say this - I was taking stroll last night after it rained and misted all day. It's still winter where I am, but the buds on the trees are starting to whisper spring. While walking through my neighborhood, I caught a whiff of fresh laundry wafting from someone's house and out into the cold air. It reminded me of Tears, the damp, misty, laundry-tinted air of last night.

Tears isn’t inherently sad with its bright and crisp opening. However, the lilac in here becomes increasingly dewy as you wear it, mimicking petals wilting as clouds begin to block the sun. This fragrance smells less like sadness and more like forgetting that you were ever happy to begin with. It is a beautifully melancholic reminder that “nothing gold can stay.”

My first impression upon this scent was just how WATERY it was. Not watered down, no, truly glassy in a way I hadn't really smelled before. Imagine sobbing into a bed of lilacs, tasting your salted tears mingling with the flowers against your lips. There's a comforting musk about it, something that sinks into your skin in a way that feels like dew.

I’ve been on the hunt for a lilac perfume for years. I tried the one from Aerin and while that was definitely lilac, it wasn’t what I was looking for. I wanted the scent of lilac blooms in the air not necessarily lilacs being shoved up my nostrils. Tears is that, a soft airy scent. This is a well blended concoction that I wish lasted a tad longer.

A lilac garden after the rain, when the sky is still overcast but brightening silver-white. Smelling the fancy lotions and powders in your grandmother's bathroom while sitting at her soft, pink-cushioned vanity. I love this like I love Chanel No. 5: a bedtime fragrance for slipping into your pajamas and under clean sheets with your favorite book

Tears captures the delicate emotion of a single tear, evoking a sense of ethereal beauty and remembrance . It opens with the tender aroma of lilacs, reminiscent of a spring morning where blossoms glisten with dew. At the base the ambergris envelops you in a soft, musky embrace, that is both intimate and tender.

A surprising love for me, and a refreshing change from everything flooding the market. It smells like stepping into an ultra-luxurious spa—comforting yet cool, which feels a bit ironic given its name is Tears.

When I first applied I thought this was just nice, but I could not stop sniffing my wrist. I’m convinced this is what fairies smell like. Light, like flowers after the rain. Really pretty, full bottle worthy.

i wore this on my wedding day. moments so tender and melancholic to look back on deserved an emotional scent. lilac being a very nostalgic note for me, it evoked tears shared with bittersweet memories.

This smells like someone stripped a classic 90s aquatic-floral fragrance (think Kenzo) of all harsh & loud elements leaving only the soft watery and white floral notes behind.

I love it. So much. And i hate that i do because its soo hyped right now. Between this and Nosferatu I have the gloomy dreary decaying lilac perfumes of my childhood dreams.

gives me a nostalgic feeling of being a kid in the springtime with the lilacs in the rain - also get pencil shavings from it, which reminds me of being a kid. i love it.

You've just bathed using rose-scented soap. You're standing amongst lilac bushes, staring out into the salty sea. Tears are salty, too, so I get the name. I love this.

A poem of longing scrawled on a violet candy wrapper. Purple flower petals in a glass of water. Salty tears trailing down a pretty powdered face.

Cozy, melancholic. Starts as a damp spring day with lilac blooms, turns into church incense on my skin. Very beautiful and comforting scent.

This scent is very powdery, soapy, and lilac on my skin. This scent reminds me of a clean baby being wrapped in a warm blanket before bed.

Smelled this at a scent bar, I love how melancholic this scent is. Floral but cold, I remember feeling sad when I smelled this.

Floral, fresh, powdery, feminine—like sticking your nose in a flower on a crisp chilly day. So chic, elegant, and timeless.

gives me thunderstorms in the summer. wet flowers in stone. the more time passes I can sense a bit of powderyness

Wow I wasn’t expecting to love this as much as I do. So wonderful and light! I’m in love.

this is what i think laura palmer smells like, a melancholic tainted innocence

heartbreak in spring. harp sounds. <3

Florals!! I smell lilac, orange blossom maybe a tinge of jasmine? It smells fresh and like Springtime at first. As the scent settles on my skin, it smells powdery but not overly powdery, just a tad. The freshness of the lilac is gone, which is a little disappointing but lilac is a tricky note in perfumery... I do not detect any pepper or any orange or rose. But i am sure they are helping the overall composition of this scent. This is overall a powdery floral fragrance. Longevity is not very good on my skin. Barely 3 hours. After that, it is a slight powdery skin scent. But then again, it is on my skin and my skin “eats” perfumes 😩 I personally think this is not necessarily an apt name for this particular scent. Tears, to me, are definitely a result of negative emotions (such as anger, extreme frustration or bitterness, and great sadness). So obviously, I feel neither of these emotions when I smell this particular scent...I do understand that this scent’s name encompasses a very wide range of emotions such as happiness or sadness and all that is in between but to me, this particular scent brings on a smile and a sense of contentment. Perhaps a tinge of nostalgia but it is the happy kind of nostalgia and I think it is due to the lilac in there. I am always on the hunt for a good lilac scent and this one is very nice! It evokes in me a memory of my youth when I’d walk to school and passed by lilac bushes in the Spring. I love it and I certainly do not feel like shedding tears 😬 Alright, I’ll shut up about the name of this fragrance, after all, we are all different and we all perceive the world in a different manner so it is what it is. Regardless, this scent is pretty though it doesn’t warrant the high price...At $225 USD for 75 ml, I know I can get something similar if not better...However, I am super happy I got to try this beauty! It was worth purchasing the sample : )

All this poetic prose, all these laments, all of these emotional, evocative scenes that people have come up with to describe this fragrance are true. This is nostalgic, soft, reminds me of heartbreak and pain - teary-eyed. I have never seen a fragrance so aptly-named. I am not a floral girl. I cannot stand the scent of sharp, cheap perfume-heavy florals. But this, this is something special. The lilac is what I hoped it would be: photorealistic, delicate, dewy. I am so so thankful I do not smell sharp orange blossom or plumes of roses in the back round of this (I am not a fan of the scent of either flower and I was worried that it would ruin it). Somehow everything in this mixes perfectly to round out that gorgeous lilac and makes this something to evoke such strong emotions. Edit: I have decided that I actually really like this and have subsequently bought a 10mL decant. My problem though is that I only feel for it on very specific days-when it’s warm and rainy. So now I have a fragrance for when it’s cold and rainy and when it’s warm and rainy (funny how that turned out). I don’t think I will end up getting a full bottle of this (although I love the bottles) but it’s nice to know that I do like lilacs as much as I thought I did. Oh, the search for a FB worthy summer fragrance continues.

The white swan to Glass Bloom’s hummingbird. It’s a clean scent. A lofty, literal French maid, model-home-clean. Haters will say it smells like baby wipes. Lovers will say it smells like the shape of lost love. I think it smells like a very expensive eczema lotion someone like Gwyneth Paltrow might use, SPF15, aliquoted in an alabaster vessel shaped like a dove. Soothing, aloof, and slightly sterile. I feel disingenuous wearing Tears in my grubby, single-room flat. Despite all that, I keep coming back to waft. I can’t help but feel calmed and cleansed when I wear it. Lilac bouquets, goose-down duvets, naptime in dappled sunshine. Tears is a very put-together scent. It’s an older sister, honour student, first chair violinist scent. Maybe that’s why I have such a hot-cold relationship to it. I’m afraid I quite like it. Mental Snapshot: You’ve never gotten dirt under your fingernails. And if you did, you wouldn’t be the one cleaning it out. You have a boy for that. The same one that droppers micellar water onto your scalp every morning. Goodness, you didn’t know there was such a thing as “new car scent.” Even your oldest cars have smelled the same as the new ones! (Your oldest car was eight months old). tl;dr: model home lotion 🦢🧴

A very soapy lilac that is changed up just a bit from lilac fragrances of yesteryear by a sparkle of pink pepper, and olibanum, a slight unexpected booziness and a whisper of animalic musk. It smells quite dated and like something someone from the Victorian age would wear. Very pristine, gentile, almost prissy. I understand the reference to laundry soap but for me it pulls back just enough to remain a truly wearable perfume. Much in the same way Byredo Blanche does. This reminds me of Blanche. Like this could be a flanker of Blanche. It is very white, with the softest shades of lilac and pink. Blanche gives me those same color feelings as Tears. But Tears is also tender green as well while Blanche is not. Tears is a melancholy girl who is wistful and a daydreamer. Blanche is on the move ready to take on the world. I like both perfumes but I have to side with tears. I was always more of a daydreamer....